Sunday, August 2, 2009

Happy B-day to my fav Aunt B

Bethany happy birthday. I just wanted to let you know how much I love
and look up to you! You are so great and so awesome. You are one of my
heroes. You are such an inspiration to me. You have helped me in tough
times just by the example you have set. You are such a great mother
and I hope I can be as great as you are. Your kids are so lucky to
have a mother like you. You've always been one of my many mothers. I
love you tons. Happy Birthday.

Love ya tons,
Courtney

Bethany's Big 30th Birthday

Bethany,

It has been almost 19 years since I first meet you. You were in grade
school with a wish for Gerbeau jeans for christmas. Oh how how you
have grown in those 19 years. I watched you grow up playing softball
for your sister Wendy. Going of to college in southern Utah. Meeting
your husband and now having four children. You have grown in the
gospel of Jesus Christ and are now teaching your own family the values
that you hold dear to yourself. You have shown that you can be a good
wife and mother to those that you care most about.

KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND LOOK FORWRD TO THE FUTURE.

MIKE

Happy 30th!!

Bethany,

Wow! I can't believe the baby of the family is turning 30!! That means
I am getting quite old as well! It has been such a wonderful adventure
watching you grow up. I was so excited when Mom and Dad brought you
home from the hospital. Being 9 years old, I just took over for Mom. I
loved feeding you and even changing your diapers. I was especially
excited that we now had a new invention-disposable diapers. I didn't
have to worry about sticking you with a pin trying to get a cloth
diaper on. You were such a perfect little baby until you reached 9
months old. I will never forget how excited we all were when you
decided to take your first steps in the church on the day of Dad's
funeral. We have been chasing you ever since. Once you started walking
you got into everything. Your strong personality began to emerge. You
were so full of energy and wished to explore everything, besides being
extremely independent. You definitely wanted to figure things out for
yourself.

Car rides were such an adventure as you would not sit still. You loved
climbing back and forth from the backseat to the front. I really think
car seats were invented because of you. Mom finally bought a booster
seat and had some sort of seat belt installed to keep you tied up. I
think it is such a blessing that you had 4 older siblings to keep
track of you. While we lived on the farm, our biggest fear was that
you would wander off and fall in the creek that ran near our house. We
each took turns shadowing you making sure we knew where you were at
all times.

It is such a good thing we had such great neighbors in Provo. Everyone
on our street knew who you were because you were always visiting them.
It just took us a little time to figure out which house you were at.
Usually it was next door at the Johnsons. You and Jill were like twins.

Church was such an adventure. Getting you to sit still was out of the
question. You wandered up and down the aisles and sat with whomever
you wanted. If we tried to get you, you just took of running and would
scream at the top of your lungs.

I will never forget when you sliced your tongue from falling on the
hearth or sewing your finger and the black eye you got from jumping
off of the dresser onto the bed-only you missed and hit the corner of
the night stand. Your eye and side of your face was so black and blue,
Mom refused to let you out of the house for fear someone would think
she beat you!

Some of my favorite memories are of Timpview Softball. I so enjoyed
coaching you all four years you were there. Your freshman year was
especially great because Carol-Lyn was on the team as a senior. We
spent so much time together everyday.

I'll be honest, I was very glad you finally graduated. That meant no
more nights of you coming over to our Orem house getting help with
math-that was the easy part-or agonizing over your English papers. At
least in college the papers were spread out and it wasn't a nightly or
weekly occurrence.

Some of my favorite memories of your teen and college years are:
* Courtney and I traveling with you to Kansas City for a softball
tournament. Courtney was only about 16 months old
* Moving you into your apartment at Dixie. Remember going shopping at
DI for a dresser?
* Spending part of Thanksgiving in St. George and meeting Danny for
the first time.
* Convincing you that you could be happy living on a teachers salary,
there were other stores besides the GAP and shopping at Walmart would
be fine.

You are such a wonderful wife and mother. It has been so fun watching
you mature in these roles. You are so thoughtful, kind and caring. You
have made great use of the strong personality you were blessed with. I
am so impressed with the woman you have become. What a great example
you are to me. You have such a cute family. I only wish you were
closer so we could interact more personally instead of just over the
phone or by email. What a blessing you are in our family!

I love you so much and wish you another happy 30 years!

Wendy

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SPECIAL ONE

Dear Bethany,

You are such special aunt. I hope you have a happy birthday you are
so kind to us.

Love,

Wyatt


Dear Bethany,

You are awesome. I love it when you get to come visit. I think it is
so cool you live close to New York.

Love,

Nathan

The BIG 30!

Bethany- Congratulations on the big day! Two important dates in one month. A new baby girl and turning 30! I couldn't wait to turn 30. To have the number "3" in front of my age was exciting to me. I felt more grown-up, mature and ready to take on the world all over again.

I'm so fortunate to have a friend like you. It's funny how our paths crossed in Texas, were separated by life and career changes, and then here we are again living just two hours from each other. You, Danny and the kids are family to me. I'm thankful to have you so close when my family is so far away. When the holidays come and I think about how to spend them, I always want to pack a bag and drive to your house to be with you and the kids. I still remember when you first moved into your new home in Texas and you didn't want to go in the backyard because the bugs were "big". I remember visiting you in the hospital after you had Belle, numerous dinners and cookouts, blessings, coloring my hair for the first time and wondering what shade it would come out, visits to Utah, skiing at Brighton, lunches at Five Guys and my all time favorite is making sugar cookies with you and the girls. Wow, we've had so many good times filled with smiles and laughter. I look
forward to sharing many more with you while we both grow and experience our 30's. No matter where our lives take us or how many miles are between us, I know we will always be close friends.

Love you,
Chandra